Bae Requirements: Love God with me,Live for God with me ,Pray with me, Serve with me, Be honest with me, Grow with me

We all have hopes of finding that true love we can call our forever

Sometimes when we are searching for love we go by looks and not by the characteristics people show

Someone can look good and still have no desire to change

Someone can look good and still not be interested in the things that you are

Find someone who you can connect with

Most importantly

Find someone who is connected to God and has a relationship with him

If you know you live your life a certain way

Don’t go find someone that will make you do things you have no desire of doing.

What are you really looking for in a relationship ?

Really think about who you want to spend the rest of your life with

Love is a forever thing

Not a temporary thing

Love God with me

If you love God, find someone that express the same kind of love to God

Then you both can express that same love together to him

Live for God with me

living for God is not easy, but you can find someone that also live for God and he will strengthen you so when times are hard and someone is weak the other person can be there to strengthen you and remind you of the God you serve.

Pray with me

If bae don’t pray, he/she can’t stay

Someone that prays for you is definitely someone you would want in your life

Life is not easy

Coming together in unity and prayer is a powerful thing.

Serve with me

We all must serve

Find someone who don’t mind being selfless

Many times we lack at serving because we are with selfish people and it will cause discouragement and make you not want to serve.

If someone is willing to take a back seat and put other people needs before theirs will show you how much they will put you before themselves

Be honest with me

Honesty is a great thing

Be honest with each other

The truth hurts but a lie hurts even worse

Let honesty build the relationship

You’re not perfect

Mistakes are going to happen

And that’s where the honesty kicks in

Amit that you’re struggling with something

Admit that you need help

You can’t heal what you don’t reveal

Grow with me

It’s a beautiful thing when you can find someone who is growing with you.

Find someone who is willing to

Grow as a person

Grow financially

Grow in God

Growth is a key factor to see all the progress you have made

If you know what you want in love

Have those requirements

You don’t have to settle for less

You know what you want and deserve

Then go get it

Love is a beautiful thing.

I know I found my true love

Someone who I can grow with

And can continue to grow in God with



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When God is all you have, then all you have is all you need.

God is my everything

I know many times when I was lost, he was always there

The many times when other people walked out of my life

God stayed

We put so much effort into people trying to please them or make sure we get their attention when in the end their efforts are not corresponding with ours.

When we put our efforts into serving God

We begin to see the relationship grow and we begin to see things in a whole new perspective.

We grow in knowledge, wisdom, love and many other things that we sometime are unaware of.

When we put our trust in people

They they fail us

We put our trust in God

And he goes above and beyond anything we could ever imagine.

If you don’t have no one that you can trust or count on

You can always trust God with your life

To many times we put our trust and hopes into people just to get let down and live disappointed.

When all you have is God

God is all that you need

Find like minded people with the same mindset to serve God

It will boosts your efforts into serving God

We fail

We are not perfect

But we serve a God that never fails

And perfect

God will always be there

Rely on God

Trust him

Praise him

Thank him

He knows you best

He knows what you need

He knows who you are

He knows that you’re going to make it

Just trust him

Allow God to put trust worthy people in your circle that are serious about him

If they are serious about God

They will be serious about you.



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Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.

As we go through life we know the importance of relationship building.

Whether it’s with building a relationship with God or someone that you are pursuing.

The main relationship I believe we miss out on building as a young adult is the relationship we have with ourselves.

Loving yourself, trusting yourself, knowing your worth, and knowing how valuable you are should be a priority in our lives when it comes to our own personal well being.

We drain ourselves many times because we offer these things to others and most of the time we don’t get it back in return from them.

The mental state of that is unhealthy.

How is it even possible to provide these things if you can’t do it for yourself first?

We all have dealt with some type of mental health

Not because we don’t love ourselves enough or don’t know our worth

But because we take the time out for others and forget about ourselves.

It’s good to do for others and help people

But if you can’t help yourself first, you can’t possibly have an effect on others.

Loving yourself and building that relationship with yourself is not a selfish act

It’s important that you take the time out for you.

When people see how much you care and value yourself

They will know that you can do the same for them.

Set the tone on self care.

It will help you to appreciate and be very affective in our world today.

So many people deal with mental health.

All because they don’t make time for themselves to get stronger mentally

Strengthen your mind

Yes you are going to have moments where you just feel like giving up

But you have to continue to stand on God’s promises.

Rely on God for strength

You need strength to go out and make a difference in the world

But make sure you take that time to rejuvenate and get your strength back

Love yourself

Cherish yourself

Trust yourself

Believe in yourself

Focus on yourself

I promise it’s going to set the tone.



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They didn’t leave you. God removed them.

People have been removed from your life because God is getting ready to elevate your life and they cannot go where God is taking you.

Many times we think that we are obligated to have certain people around us

But when it comes to elevation and progress

Some people are not elevating with you

And we try continue to help people that’s ok with being stagnant and it’s causing us to be stagnant.

Don’t allow others to drop their baggage off on you

Only to have you focused on their problems and not getting yourself together.

We sometimes have toxic people that continually complain or make excuses

And we think just because they’re our friends or family

We have to keep them around

When God shift your life, it’s ok to let those people go.

God is going to remove anyone that is not on the same path as you.

Trust God in this season

If you’re progressing in life and you see people that you’re usually around begin to leave

Just know that God plan for you does not require them to be present

God will send you someone or people that are going celebrate you and not just tolerate you.

People come into our life for a reason a season and a lifetime.



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“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” ‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4:8‬ ‭

This scripture opened my eyes to realize a lot.

I know in recent times I tell people or you have someone tell you to be positive.

I know I said be around positive people and think positive.

But someone brought even more attention to me by saying that God never told us to think positive.

I know some of ya struggle with being positive simply because we are unaware sometimes of what can be considered positive.

We could be making things positive that God never intended for us to think on or do.

Be aware that sometimes we can consider things to be right and not realize that it’s the total opposite of what God wants.

Philippians 4:8 tells us to think on these things; whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable.

If it’s excellent or praiseworthy, think on these things.

The word of God gives us the specifics on what we should be thinking about to shift our mindset into thinking the right way.

It never said think positive

But these are things we do consider positive

It’s a battle in the mind and I know it’s easier said than done

But many times we hear to think positive, but never are we shown to know what positive thinking is.

This scripture gives us the assurance that if we think on these things we will find peace with God.

The following scripture goes on to say

“Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.”

Philippians 4:9

Once we Apple what we learned and taught, The God of peace will be with us.

The peace of God is right there to comfort you once you begin to apply the word of God to your life.

Allow God to bring peace to your situation today.

Think on these things.

Allow this to be evident that God has given you peace.

Let your gentleness be evident to all, the Lord is near.

The peace of God will give you understanding and will guard your hearts and mind.

So instead of telling to think positive

Show them Philippians 4:8 and tell them to think on these things and God will give them peace.



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God isolates you so you can get yourself together. It may seem like you lost friendships and relationships but a better you is worth more.

Isolation is best when you are isolating yourself to build a closer relationship with God.

As we Grow in God and grow as a person, we begin to realize that the people around us have no desire to do the same.

You attract who you are.

When it comes to growth, sometimes the people around us can either help us or hurt us.

It’s your choice to choose who you want to be around to help you to elevate your life.

I know we can never become successful or do things on our own

But if you desire to become a better person, then that should be your first priority.

If you desire growth, sometimes you’re going to have to isolate yourself to get to where you want to be.

Not everyone is supposed to be with you on your journey.

Finding yourself and growing in God, you are giving God permission to put the right people on your path.

When you find like minded people and surround yourself with them, you will begin to grow even more.

Iron sharpens iron

Get around people who sharpen you to becoming better.

If God cause you to be isolated, make sure you are growing in him.

Many times we isolate ourselves and not focus on God and ourselves.

When you don’t focus on God, that’s when the Devil will try to attack your mind.

An idle mind is the devil playground

Protect your mind

Growing should be a necessity in your life

If you lose people on the way, just know that God is getting ready to surround you with the right people to prosper you.

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God will disrupt your plans before they disrupt your life.

God knows the plan he has for our life.

He knows what we should do, how we should do it, and why we are doing it.

We sometimes stray away from the plans God has for us because the plan God has for us causes us to do things we are not comfortable with.

We began to start doing things on our own and begin to plan our own path with things that makes us comfortable.

Being comfortable is not a plan from God.

God put us in uncomfortable situations to grow us, not to harm us.

But the fear of being uncomfortable causes us to wise in our own eyes and we begin to become frustrated with God because of the path WE chose to take.

In my life, everything I tried to do on my own I failed at it.

I began to feel frustrated and upset when I didn’t do the things I wanted to do simply because I tried to create my own plan and include God in mine.

If You put God first, allow God to take the lead in your life.

Me being frustrated and disappointed was pointless simply because I took the lead and didn’t allow God to take the lead.

I was constantly disappointing myself because I chose to follow my own path, when the path God had for me was already predestined.

God knows everything you need to do to fulfill your purpose in life.

Allow him to take control.

Going down your own path only leads to destruction.

I’m grateful to God that he disrupted my plans because as time went on, my plans kept defeating me.

Be obedient to God and watch how you become prosperous in life by allowing his plans for your life become your lifestyle.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. – Jeremiah 29:11

God already knows.

Get out of your comfort zone

There is never any progress in your comfort zone.

Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

The plans that God has for you, is something that’s going to bless your life and the life of others.

You will become frustrated on your own path.

The great thing about following God’s plan is that he gives us wisdom, knowledge, and most importantly understanding.

I never understood why God chose this path for me ; until I took a step back and seen where God had brought me from, I begin to see why he called me to do what I do know.

You will prosper

You will have a great future

You will impact a generation

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Don’t rush what God is taking time to prepare.

Trusting God’s timing requires a lot of patience.

We sometimes try to position ourselves for things that we are not ready for.

We think more about the benefits of what we may receive but we don’t think about what that certain thing will require from us.

I know in the beginning of starting something new or wanting something new, we expect to see results right away.

We start to rush the process and began to become frustrated with what we are doing simply because we are not getting the results we expected.

Trusting the process takes times.

God sometimes allow things to happen simply to build us so we won’t break.

Yes I know what you are doing may be hard but you have to trust God in the process because he’s not only preparing you for a certain thing be he’s also preparing a certain thing for you.

We must allow God to shift some things around in our life because he’s the one that’s going to lead us in the right direction.

Don’t allow your impatience cause you to quit what God has called you to do.

If God is in it, there is no limits.

We fail many times rushing what God is trying to do in our lives and that is what causes us to be frustrated.

Knowing that God is in control of your life is something you should not worry about.

If you put God is first in your life, trust his timing with your life.

Everything is going according to his plan

Trust God’s timing.

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God has a perfect plan for your imperfect life.

God has a perfect plan for your imperfect life.

Perfection is something we can strive for but still never manage to come close to. God understands that we will never be perfect. He knows that we are going to make mistakes and fail sometimes.

That doesn’t mean that his plan for us changes.

We go through life wanting to be perfect in the eyes of others. Then when we make a mistake or fail; the people we are trying to please are the first to judge.

People will use your past failures and mistakes against you and make you feel worthless.

But God see our imperfections and still use us effectively.

Many times we live our life trying to please others when the only one who’s opinion matters is our own and what God knows about us.

Don’t go through life trying to be perfect in the eyes of others just for them to tear you down.

The plans God has for your life are still in effect even when you make the mistakes.

It’s up to you to make the choice to get back on the path to following God’s perfect plan and will for your life.

Let your story be the one that inspires a generation.

Don’t feel shameful for the decisions and mistakes you made in life.

See everyday as a new opportunity to become better and fulfill your purpose in life.

God has something great in store for you.

Don’t let your imperfections stop the perfect plan that God has for your life.

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Don’t t let anyone or anything stop you from becoming who God has called you to be.

Don’t t let anyone or anything stop you from becoming who God has called you to be.

What is your purpose in life?

Do you believe the path that you are on is the right path for your future?

I know in life there are many times where we question if we are on the right path or not. Especially when things don’t seem to be going the way that we plan and hope it would be.

We all have made mistakes and experienced let downs and failures, but does that really mean we’re on the wrong path because we failed at something?

True failure is only when you quit doing something.

I can honestly say, if you quit doing the things that you love or quit becoming a better you; then you’re on the wrong path in life.

If you let God lead you, you will begin to understand that those let downs and what we call failures are only strengthening us to becoming better and pushing us to our purpose.

It takes hard work to stay focused and achieving your goals. Especially when your the only one doing it in your circle. Sometimes we would rather do what others are doing because it seems “easy”

If your life is easy, you also must be on the wrong path in life. Things should not be easy because when we experience the storms in life they will eventually defeat us.

Greatness will cause you to feel uncomfortable. Being on the right path is uncomfortable because not everyone is doing it.

Don’t be afraid to stand out and do what’s best for you.

The plans God has for your life is going to cause you to feel uncomfortable.

Life is going to get harder, that’s why we must get tougher.

Don’t let your comfort zone keep you from reaching your full potential.

You have greatness in you.

Greatness is contagious .

Let your greatness rub off on someone.

Get out of your comfort zone.